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I mustered the courage to break up w bf of 1.5 yrs. He'd been treating me badly and even though I still love him I had to. He called me selfish and said I was worse than my ex boyfriends for breaking up w him. How do I heal?
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Anonymous 7w

good job! u gotta put urself first

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Anonymous 7w

I know I did the right thing and I wish him the best, but I feel like I'm second guessing myself. Everyone had been telling me to breakup w him so I knew they were seeing some blind spots that I wasn't seeing in the relationship. I love him, but the relationship was turning toxic. I just feel miserable right now, and he refuses to see my perspective after I talked about his

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Thank you 💙

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