Ask Men on Sidechat | idk if this counts as a talk of exclusivity but him and i didn’t want to start dating right before summer break because we would be thousands of miles apart and with a time zone difference so we plan to become official when we return to college from break

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Ask Men 19w

idk if this counts as a talk of exclusivity but him and i didn’t want to start dating right before summer break because we would be thousands of miles apart and with a time zone difference so we plan to become official when we return to college from break

Anonymous 19w

i can’t tell if that means we are exclusive because we’re planning that future together? or should i really confirm with a “we’re exclusive right?” does our conversation of talking this summer and then waiting count as exclusivity???

Anonymous 19w

Just be like “hey we’re exclusive right?”

Anonymous

OP 19w

you 100% need to confirm communication is the most important part of a relationship and you can’t just assume such a big thing like exclusivity

Anonymous

#1 19w

i just don’t know how ? like. ugh. i want the security of knowing we r together like that but it seems so random to ask

Anonymous

#1 19w

also like. he literally said “i love you” to me so it would be crazy to ask if we r exclusive after he said that.

Anonymous

OP 19w

if you’re together it shouldn’t be random to ask it doesn’t matter if he said i love you - some people’s minds don’t work the same and he may not know you want to be exclusive you NEED to ask him

Anonymous

#1 19w

i just feel weird rn to ask like. i’ve been waiting for him to initiate it bc im rlly scared it’ll be awkward or that im pressuring him into it or being w me and i don’t wanna scare him off

Anonymous

OP 19w

Literally ask him