Ask Men on Sidechat | Need a male to explain how calling a woman “easy” isn’t major rape vibes. What exactly do you want from her? For her to not want it? To show no desire or enthusiasm? To get raped by you? Explain it. You can’t. Because that’s exactly what it is.

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Ask Men 21h

Need a male to explain how calling a woman “easy” isn’t major rape vibes. What exactly do you want from her? For her to not want it? To show no desire or enthusiasm? To get raped by you? Explain it. You can’t. Because that’s exactly what it is.

Anonymous 21h

My interpretation of this is that, especially in regards to hook ups, there’s an underlying social transaction from the woman towards the man (if successful), and that referring to a woman as easy would be in reference to that woman is more willing to commit to that “transaction” rather than other woman who would have higher standards or requirements. I’m not defending it, no matter how you slice it, that kinda talk is gross and degrading, but that’s j my two cents.

Anonymous 20h

Easy means she’ll sleep with anyone without having a real connection. Don’t need to be woo’d. It’s not about her being easy for u necessarily but how she’s super easy for any guy who wants her. She’s not high profile. Maybe think of it as designer exclusive brands vs Walmart brand that everyone can get easily.

Anonymous 19h

It’s about the amount of effort you have to put in. Things requiring less effort are considered easier than things that require more effort. For example, some women will only consent to sex after spending a month or two getting to know one another, that’s effort. Some will only consent after years dating and then marriage, that’s a lot of effort. And some will consent after 20 minutes of small talk and checking that you have a pulse, that is easy. All of the above are consensual, none are rape.

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Anonymous 21h

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Anonymous

#1 21h

Me if I had no argument:

Anonymous

#3 20h

Women aren’t clothes. You’re gross. Meanwhile, you and your boys are all Walmart with you logic. Men are easier than anybody. They’re “easy” for children, animals, and dead women too. I hope you never have a gf if you’re comparing women to objects at your grown age

Anonymous

#3 20h

God forbid a woman is a human being and wants sex too. A mutual act btw. Sex isn’t just for men, and you need a wake up call with the shit you just typed w a straight face

Anonymous

OP 20h

It sounds like you already made up your mind instantly down voting every reply😂. Of course women aren’t clothes it’s an analogy to make it easier for u to understand. Do people want the exclusive hard to get brands or do they want the easy cheap brands? Same goes for people

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Anonymous

#3 20h

Tell that to your boys nigga. Yall go to bars and harass women and wanna tell women that they’re easy and should not enjoy sex

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Anonymous

OP 20h

That’s what’s called a generalization I’m sorry if that happened to you but I don’t know any men who do that so I’m not sure who to tell.

Anonymous

#3 20h

You can only think that if you yourself follow that rule. You wanna put strict rules on women and dictate their vagina, but when someone presses you and your boys for being absolute whores, suddenly an “analogy” comes along involving objects. “Keys and locks” “clothing brands” like nigga

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Anonymous

OP 20h

I think it’s a pretty easy concept of human behavior that the more exclusive something is the more people want it. So a women who will sleep with a lot of guys and is easy isn’t as high value as a women or doesn’t sleep around.

Anonymous

OP 20h

I don’t want to put strict rules on women and dictate there vagina 😂 where are you getting this from. And I also agreed with you saying men are easier then women

Anonymous

#3 20h

For the millionth time, you can only say that if you and ur friends are equally as sexually active and follow that same expectation

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Anonymous

OP 20h

Of course men want women who want sex. It’s hotter the more she’s into it tbh but guys don’t want women who want sex with other men. Sorry if u don’t like that but it’s not r*pey like get a grip ffs 😂

Anonymous

OP 20h

Not true just like you don’t have to follow my expectations and u can sleep with who ever u want I can do that same. Just means I won’t sleep with you because your easy

Anonymous

OP 19h

No. Sex is for men only. Only men with men, no women allowed. You lose. Good day sir!

Anonymous

OP 19h

Nothing really to be argued, you just think it’s rapey cause you won’t to. You know there a women that say men are easy and men that say men are easy yet I don’t see you whining about that

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Anonymous

#4 15h

This should apply to both genders. A manwhore shouldn’t be saying a word about a woman doing the same thing

Anonymous

OP 14h

It does apply to both genders. If you want a guy who’s easy, you can find an easy guy. If you don’t want a guy who’s easy, you can look for one who isn’t. That’s your prerogative.

Anonymous 14h

“Hmmm I don’t think about rape very much, so I must be a victim when everyone else who suffers harassment thinks about it.”

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Anonymous

#2 13h

Being accused of something you never think of and never think to do, gets exhausting.

Anonymous

#5 13h

Didn’t think anybody said your name here bub, why are you choosing to take it personally?

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Anonymous

#1 10h

Yikes that lack of grammar…