It’s not true, you always gotta be proactive in interpersonal relationships

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“If he wanted to he would” assumes men are incapable of considering the wants of others

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If I say “If she wanted to she would” and based all of my interactions with women off that concept it would be absolutely horrible. Just because he wants to doesn’t mean he will, he can want all he wants but if it’s not realistic or feasible he won’t.

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Can’t always depend on one person to drive everything

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I mean, I feel like there is some truth. If he wanted to, he would. That doesn’t mean if he didn’t want to, he would never do it. What are you expecting from them?

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If he wanted to put in effort vs if he wanted to buy you expensive shit that you don’t need nor can he afford

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if everyone (all genders) actually went by this statement everybody would be bums when it comes to dating

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no

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