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Ask Men 11w

my best friend is gorgeous, smart, talented, and so kind-how is she single?? she’s always asking what’s wrong with her and there’s nothing?

Anonymous 11w

What is she doing to find a bf ? Having or not having a bf should never determine someone’s worth but we tend not to be the most objective when we’re talking about our friends

Anonymous 11w

Nobody’s perfect and that’s okay, just gotta start by gaining more awareness as to her own flaws :) also, my women friends who struggle with dating often struggle because they either fail to put in the effort to reciprocate, choose immature men who don’t want to commit, or just got super unlucky. There’s a lot of things it could be

Anonymous 11w

ngl dating is also a bit of luck, unfortunately it seems like some people struggle despite doing everything right. have you tried matching her up with any of your buddies/acquaintances? maybe pairing her up with someone you trust might work better

Anonymous 11w

If what you say is true, she probably doesn’t put herself out there enough because I 100% guarantee if she did she would have thousands of men going after her

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#1 11w

shes tried pretty much everything! the apps, putting herself out there, talking to guys etc

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OP 11w

What stage does she fail ? Is she getting no looks from guys ? Do things tend to fizzle out after a first date ? Is she getting dumped after a prolonged talking stage ?

Anonymous

#1 11w

just situationships!! no commitment because she’s not interested in endless talking

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OP 11w

I see a lot of women fret about this and think it’s important to understand it’s not really their fault. A lot of young men just aren’t looking for anything long term. Idk if it would work but maybe she just has to be more patient and be very selective with guys and let things go at a slow pace

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Anonymous 11w

Enlighten me then. I know many women and that’s their experience

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Anonymous 11w

I mean how many men like you or your female friends and go after you or them? If they are all men who you or your friends don’t like back, they don’t take you or your friends seriously, or they aren’t a good match, that is a problem, but it’s a different problem have few or no men expressing interest or going after you and your friends in the first place.

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Anonymous 11w

“Normal” college girls are rarely single for more than a month unless they choose to be, and they are always sleeping around. Don’t say it’s not easy because you have billions of options and maybe 80% of them aren’t compatible. As a guy I know what “not easy” looks like

Anonymous 11w

I don’t say this to be rude btw. It might sound harsh but it’s the truth

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Anonymous 11w

My point is that it is easy for women relatively speaking

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Anonymous 11w

I’m not saying they don’t have different experiences. But if they’re attractive, they are going to have many options, 100% guaranteed

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Anonymous 11w

Like I said before though, if even 20% of them are good, I would not consider it difficult in the slightest

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Anonymous 11w

agreed, ik a lot of people who are always in relationships but never truly happy with them