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Do guys also purposely walk around their crush/ girl they like in close proximity to get them to notice them without talking? Like how us girls walk in front of them but we don’t dare to look in their face and look straight ahead

Anonymous 2w

behaviors like this are not specific to either sex, gaining attention has tons of nuisance from culture, to context, and history with the person. I often find it lame when all a woman thinks she needs to do is walk by me like I’m sum sensually impulsive animal that’ll follow after her because she peaked my interest.

Anonymous 2w

Why play games and try and drop subtle hints?

Anonymous 2w

Yall do that?

Anonymous 2w

What?

Anonymous 2w

No, I stay as far away from her as possible

Anonymous 2w

I didn’t know women walked in front of men (without looking back) to get their crush’s attention until now…….

Anonymous

#2 2w

Which is funny because that’s the exact type of behavior women say they hate from any man except the one they like, if you want him to chase you, you’ll inspire him to do it. Other men see that and think it’s natural and common instead of selective and directed.

Anonymous

#2 2w

First comment was insightful! Second one was missing a pivotal concept called consent. “Women say they hate this but they only hate it when men they don’t like do it!” …yeah. That’s how consent works.

-2

Anonymous

stanczyk 2w

If that's something that women do when they are into us that is really fucking dumb

Anonymous

#4 2w

How do we know if you "consent" to being approached? Perhaps I am mistaken but I don't too often see women publicly announcing who they think is attractive and that she would like those attractive people to approach her?

Anonymous

#4 2w

Actually you’re missing the point which is one form is silent, implied consent which really isn’t consent at all btw because consent it an explicit and enthusiastic yes! Not a nuanced behavior that may or may not be understood the correct way, that’s the entire issue in question by OP but, okay

Anonymous

stanczyk 2w

Yeah, thats's kind of women's whole thing

Anonymous

stanczyk 2w

You wouldn’t necessarily; like #2 said u don’t act on consent you can’t be certain of. I’m saying there’s no hypocrisy in wanting to be approached by some men and not others. I’m NOT saying that appearing around u frequently is a clear and effective method of communicating when we want me to be approached. (We’re women, after all— jk jk jk fellow ladies don’t @ me)

Anonymous

#4 2w

Duh there’s no hypocrisy ur literally just describing preference to a comment section talking about the nuance of potentially romantic interactions. and u don’t think we understand preference?😭😂

Anonymous 2w

Which is why women get played because the only way to defend against the want constant deniability, (which is really just not being accountable for the emotions you stir up in other people because it’s not worth, weights too much, not actually know what u want, etc) is to trick a woman into thinking she doesn’t need it. L O L

Anonymous

#4 2w

You’re right don’t let the downvotes tell you otherwise they’re just mad