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Ask Men 17h

Why do men act like it’s so easy for women in the dating world when in reality it’s only easy to get a guy to sleep with you

Anonymous 16h

I mean I would date just about any Protestant Christian girl but nobody wants me bc I’m ugly or smt, so I have a feeling it’s easier for y’all.

Anonymous 10h

Just because it’s easiER to get laid doesn’t mean it isn’t easy for you to get a boyfriend. It’s just why you assume it’s hard (and invent needless challenges for yourselves to make it harder). For men, 99% of the challenge is finding a woman who’s that attracted to you when women are spoiled for choice. But on your end, that’s basically already done for you. If you had a coworker who only had to do the easiest 1% of your job, you’d think, relative to you, they have an easy job, right?

Anonymous 7h

Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Act like a housewife, not a ho and don’t waste your time with men that are just looking to get laid. Get off dating apps and cut back on social media. Delete tiktok.

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Anonymous

#2 10h

I mean men are also pretty selective with who they find attractive too

Anonymous

OP 10h

Uh, no. Not the case. Have you met men? We have preferences, sure. We can get specific if we’re playing build-a-babe and imagining our hypothetical perfect woman. But on a more realistic level, men are generally hugely flexible. If you’re not overweight and not a burn-victim (or somesuch obvious and unusual disfigurement), most men think you’re hot If you don’t mind me prying; do you not think guys find you hot? Why not?

Anonymous

#2 8h

Hi! thought I’d chime in. A study out of the UK found men in their 20s care about looks four times more than women do. And women in their 20s care three times more about someone’s personality. https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0250151

Anonymous

#3 8h

Interesting. Not at all relevant, but interesting. For one thing, that sounds like self-reported “data” meaning all it tells you is how honest they are about it. But even if they controlled for that in some kind of blind trial, how much they prioritize looks isn’t the same thing as how picky they are or how high their standards are or what it takes to be attractive. It wouldn’t at all surprise me that men are more vain but easier to please.