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Guys will say they don’t approach bc it makes girls uncomfy but then they’ll stare….its so weird to me. The staring is 10x weirder
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Anonymous 5w

I glance ones and think “damn she’s so pretty and cool, I ain’t good enough” and go on with my day

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Anonymous 5w

There’s a 95% chance I’m zoning tf out

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Anonymous 5w

I don’t even stare on purpose, and I only feel weird when staring at girls because I hear stuff like this. I will stare at a dude as much as I want if I feel like it.

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Anonymous 5w

We just appreciating the beauty 😔😔😔🙈🙈

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

It’s weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Either that or scanning for potential filming

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

What

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

If someone is filming me I stare at them until they stop

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Why would they randomly be filming you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

They’ve done it before

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Got anxious about how I was being perceived, voiced that, they took it as me actually doing the thing, they started filming me to catch me doing it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

What thing?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I feel like, generally speaking not just between men & women, staring is rude. if someone is just staring at me i’m going to feel uncomfortable. that’s why people don’t do it. so go on staring at people but it’s not really a kind thing to do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Yeah! Like I grew up being told staring is rude. Which I think it is, so when guys stare when they obviously like you to makes it worse. Idk your intentions

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I also was taught that staring at people was rude when I was a kid. I thought everyone did tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

That’s what I thought too. I guess not. I mean evolutionary wise we get mad when ppl stare bc it can be a threat

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Me too

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