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my gf keeps sending me tiktoks like “getting mad at my reaction to your action is manipulation” but this chick literally freaks out over the smallest shit. like ofc imma get mad when you blowup and threaten to leave me over hanging out with my buddy. help
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Anonymous 1w

She sounds kinda toxic broski

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Anonymous 1w

Emotional tantrum as a way to get at you. Treat it as such, tell her you can talk when she’s done, dont give her reactions. Or get another one.

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Anonymous 1w

Sounds like yall ain’t good for each other

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Anonymous 1w

like are u communicating to her when u hang out with ur friends

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Anonymous 1w

Just leave dawg

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

this is a very good point bc i got mad at my bf recently for going to his friend’s place. BUTTTTT he didn’t tell me beforehand, left me on delivered for over an hour, and it was after he worked so it changed the time we’d be able to ft. it’s all about communication.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

#5 is valid that makes sense but yes i give her as much heads up as possible and tell her asap if things change. its gotten to where im nervous to tell her depending who it is(she hates 1/2 my friends) bc i know it’ll cause shit

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

She sounds toxic you things might not work out with yall if one is mad at you for having a social life and the other is too scared to bring up certain friends yall either gotta talk it out or end things

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

are they girl friends or male friends? makes a huge difference

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

a mix but she’s met all the girls, none of them have tried anything weird (if they have i cut them off), and she has guy friends and i have no issue w that

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Ok serious question. What’s wrong with leaving you on delivered for an hour?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

she said it affect the time they were supposed to ft?? also and hour is a long to not to be communicating with someone especially if u have upcoming plans

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