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Do men approach anymore or. I’m tired of being stared at
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Anonymous 21h

Now days a woman will publicly humiliate a man if he asks

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Anonymous 22h

goes both ways girl stop sitting there looking at me like I gotta do something

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Anonymous 19h

I used to but I’ve had 0 success so I just kinda gave up

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Anonymous 21h

No

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Anonymous 19h

Yeah we’re afraid for the most part just to be honest

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Anonymous 19h

Why on earth would I do that? “No” isn’t even close to the worst thing she could say

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Anonymous 21h

staring is weird but i feel like approaching someone i don't know at least as acquaintances would be harassment

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Anonymous 22h

Not if they don’t know you

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Anonymous 15h

No because we’re scared of being accused of harassment

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Anonymous 12h

How, where, when, and for what? I need answers to all these questions because otherwise I am not approaching. And I have no idea how to get into a situation like that.

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Anonymous 14h

Plenty of guys approach maybe you’re just not all that terrific

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

That’s weir

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

I don’t really go up to girls just in public bc I don’t wanna intimidate or interrupt them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

That doesn’t happen lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Yeah it does I’ve seen a few of my buddies ripped up by some

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

Some maybe but most no

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

So what do you do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Personally I just accepted I’m probably gonna die alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

Well 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 21h

Right

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

It happens all the time actually

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 21h

It’s not 😭 talking to a random person is not unless your are genuinely being weird. I’m all for guys being more aware but that is too much

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 21h

Yeah less likely to get accused w a smile n stay back

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

So do you date or

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 19h

This is the mindset that holds me back too. We are lovers with real feelings :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

Im ugly as shit so I’m not gonna waste my time on someone who wouldn’t look my way twice

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 19h

Reach for nothing bro you’ll get it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Now you know what being a man is like.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 15h

No. Yall will never know what it’s like to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Op youre an ass. You see why men dont ask you out? The way you act in here

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

No it’s genuinely different. Yall will never know what it’s like to have a period or a child.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 14h

I am lol it’s also my location

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Come over to LA then you wouldn’t be complaining

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 14h

I’m on the east coast

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

It happens all the time. The only way I approach a woman now is to give a slip of paper with my number, say “I think you’re attractive, here’s my number, feel free to reach out” and walk away, and I’m even scared doing that due to potentially being labeled a creep.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 13h

That’s perfectly fine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Usually it’s fine but one time someone said “ew, get away creep,” as I was doing that. Ruined my night, and that’s the whole reason why I’m scared.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 13h

I mean we’re scared for men to hurt us but

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

name 3 women that have viral accounts from walking down the street and doxxing men who reject them. I can’t think of one but I can think of dozens of men who do that very thing. I’ve never seen a women pull out a scale on camera when answering a question someone ASKED about their type lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 13h

We’re not saying it doesn’t happen to women. We’ve never said that. We’re just saying, it happens to men. Nothing more, nothing less.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12h

Dm me

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 12h

I think i replied to the wrong person. I meant to reply to #4 who said women will publicly humiliate men when in reality it is very likely a man may humiliate a women for rejection

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 12h

No you replied to the correct person, I was just replying to you stating specifically that it happens to us too, just that it doesn’t go viral as often. Your point was valid.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 33m

this literally doesn't happen y'all 😭😭 stop letting social media horror stories scare you out of interacting with people

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 30m

Right

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