To be clear, I don’t complain about matches. That being said after a couple of successful dates I would be exclusive to one person

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(Not a good guy but do want a relationship.) wdym exactly? Like if I had my choice of multiple women I wanted, would I date one or all of them? I’d date one of them. If I had the luxury of time, I’d date them all briefly and pick a favorite to become exclusive with. But jsyk, as a guy, matching a girl doesn’t equate to the ability to either sleep with, casually date, or get into a relationship with her. Theres like a 10% chance shes even interested and a 2% chance she stays that way.

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I think the part that sucks the most is not getting any likes until you like someone first, I’ve maybe gotten a total of 6 likes that didn’t come from me liking the other persons profile first

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Last time I had a girl (2 years ago, lasted 3 months before we mutually split just due to religious preferences) all I wanted to do was spend time with her. I didn’t even consider that there was other girls out there cause all I wanted to do was treat her as good as I could. I’d bring her little things that made her think of me, we went out to dinner, and on weekends would just spend that time cuddling and watching a movie. I definitely miss that life 😴

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In all honesty, probably not. Dating apps don’t really work for me at any stage, and you quickly learn that it doesn’t matter if only one of you has bad communication skills, you both need good (enough) communication skills

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You can play the field and still respond to multiple people in a good time window, it’s called putting effort in

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