Ask Men on Sidechat | Why is it that white man/black woman couples are so rare compared to the other way around? Like 95+% of the time I see mixed kids, the father is black and the mother is white. Lots of black athletes at my school have white gfs but not the other way around

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Ask Men 8w

Why is it that white man/black woman couples are so rare compared to the other way around? Like 95+% of the time I see mixed kids, the father is black and the mother is white. Lots of black athletes at my school have white gfs but not the other way around

Anonymous 8w

Societal fetishization of black men. From things like penis size mattering a lot to so many people (both men and women, and I’m not saying it isn’t important, but rather that it is seen as way more important than it is), will naturally result in black men, who genetically (and stereotypically) have larger penises, being more desired. There’s other reasons that lead to this fetishization as well, but I can only type so much in a yikyak comment

Anonymous 8w

one sided race loyalty

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Anonymous

#1 8w

What does that mean lol

Anonymous

#2 8w

black women are often more hesitant to date outside of their race, are are usually shamed more for doing so.

Anonymous

#1 8w

I would argue with the more hesitant part but def more shamed

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Anonymous

#1 8w

Damn, shamed by who? Other black people? Why’s that do you think

Anonymous

freestyle 8w

wdym? black women aren’t hesitant or black men are just as hesitant or more?

Anonymous

#2 8w

i dated a man out of my race and we’d get a lot of questioning/disgusted stares from older black men and older white women, but mostly black men. i think that’s who i attract mostly though. when i brought him home one of the men in my family asked why my dad let me date him. so i would say the shame black women face mostly comes from black people

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Anonymous

#1 8w

Crazy