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Am I delulu for wanting a guy who doesn’t have any weird fetishes(looking at you, armpit guy) and doesn’t watch porn? Because I feel like I’m looking for a unicorn here.
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Anonymous 4w

It’s okay to want that, but the stats are not favorable by any means

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Anonymous 4w

Can i ask why? Like if you dont share the fetish and bro keeps it to himself what is the issue? Not judging im just curious what your perpsective is

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Anonymous 4w

bro ur totally not crazy, that’s almost ideal. tbh im in a relationship of over a year and my bf admitted he watches porn/models, and was surprised i didn’t ?? so i j had to talk to him and make it clear how it hurt me. relationships r rly all about communication, and forgiveness if u want to make it work ❤️‍🩹

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Anonymous 4w

That’s valid

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Anonymous 4w

Nah we exist it’s just we tend to be more to ourselves than the rest

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Anonymous 4w

Some fetishes are so weird. Like toes and armpits, etc

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Not the fetish part, the porn part. It is disgustingly common for men to have interacted with porn

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I agree. You can expect him not to be a porn addict. That’s normal but 99.999999999% of men, have consumed porn at some point.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Consuming porn is perfectly normal and completely healthy, as long as it’s not an addiction

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

We all can have our own opinions on porn, I just find it alarming that the rate of porn consumption is as high as it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Do you mean the rate at which individuals consume porn or the amount of people consuming porn?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Both. I don’t think porn is healthy in the long run. It can have its advantages, for certain individuals, but it shouldn’t be a widespread solution sexual stimulation. It also isn’t good for children to consume and become addicted to it, using it regularly for the rest of their lives.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I fully agree that over consumption of porn, especially among young teenagers is harmful. It is also true that modern porn is designed to get you addicted. The issue is that many people have no other way of getting sexual satisfaction. There are positive health benefits to masterbation, and negative effects of sexual frustration.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

A study showing that regular ejaculation reduces risk of prostate cancer https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11898507/ A study finding correlation between sexual frustration and violence, aggression, and other antisocial actions https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0047235221000854

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Nighttime emissions solve this problem already

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

The frequency of nighttime emissions is just not enough to receive the full benefits. The study found the least risk in people experiencing 21+ ejaculations per month

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

I’ll take my chances.

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