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i’m thinking about making the first move but in the past i think they saw me being really easy to sleep with, and they’re not actually interested in me. is this how most guys see it? is it a bad idea to keep making the first move as a girl
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Anonymous 1d

i guess guys are afraid of rejection but i’m afraid of being a last resort for a man who just wants someone to have sex with😭

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Anonymous 1d

Most guys aren't interested in women who are easy for relationships. The way I see it there is nothing wrong with women making the first move just don't be easy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yes this is a good point for men AND women!! I feel like a lot of people get into relationships just to be in one, not because they have any real desire to be with a specific someone.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

but i don’t see how a woman could make the first move and NOT be seen as an easy target

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I made the first move on my boyfriend and it didn’t make him think I was easy, he was very respectful and polite the entire time. A good person will never equate someone making a move as easy, if they do, they’re not someone you want to date anyways. I think if you’re going around asking every guy you see to go out with you or have a known history of constantly being in relationships though it could make you come off as just wanting to date to date.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You sound like you have a good heart and im sorry this keeps happening to you. Keep standing for what you think is right, the right guy will come along and see that you’re a wonderful person to get to know.

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