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Is it ok to talk to a couple of different guys and see where it goes?
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Anonymous 6d

To me, talking is fair game, once you start to “date” (like go on dates) then i think after 1-2 date u should choose to go with that person or let them go

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Anonymous 6d

All i can really attest to is CS interviews, and in that world you’ll talk to multiple companies for weeks before settling on an offer/deadline. I think you can employ a little of the same, but its weird to go “sorry to reject you 3 weeks and 2 dates after talking to you as I’ve chosen someone else”, so try to reject by date 2?

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Anonymous 6d

?

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Anonymous 6d

sure

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Anonymous 6d

No

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Anonymous 5d

If I was still dating then no, I would move on from you to someone who dates one by one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

So I jsut went on a date w one of them today but he lives too far and I plan to go on one tonight. He might also live too far away in my books

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Should I jsut tell him now he’s too far away or go on the date and say it didn’t go well

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

and

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

If ur going into it thinking ur gonna reject him, ur not gonna have a good time

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

I’m just nerv ….

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

I’m hella awkward

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Nervous about?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

Idk what to talk about

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

I cant go on the date for you lol, just find a few topic starters and see where it goes, worst comes to worst it doesnt work out

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