Unfortunately I want an emotional connection without it being centered around sex or romance
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Anonymous9w
Asexual men exist. Don’t know exactly where they can be found though
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Anonymous9w
Hi, right here
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Anonymous9w
I do. I want that fun relationship again where we drive around at night with the widows down listening to music and talking
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Anonymous9w
Me smh
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Anonymous9w
Not dating apps thats for sure
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Anonymous9w
you already know him and he’s short or non-white
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Anonymous9w
Sorry but the only thing that separates relationships from friendships for me is sex and living with each other
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Anonymous#19w
well obviously there would be sex involved just not like at the very beginning yk like im saying why not let the emotions build up yk
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Anonymous#29w
amen
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AnonymousOP9w
Because I don’t need emotions to be horny 😭 but you do you
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Anonymous#19w
you are the epitome of why women say men aren’t lonely enough
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Anonymous#19w
Brother that’s not a relationship. That’s a fwb that stays at your house
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Anonymous#39w
You don’t have to be asexual to want a connection before literally putting yourself into someone else 💀
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Anonymous#59w
What’s wrong with it? I ain’t hurting no one or forcing anyone to do anything. Is it just because horny men bad?
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Anonymous#79w
No I know. I’m just saying that they exist
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Anonymous#39w
I genuinely don’t see the difference. Please inform me
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Anonymous#69w
mind you im not tall and have dated men shorter than me that were also evil i dont think race or height has anything to do with it
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Anonymous#19w
You don’t see the difference between a fwb and a lover?
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Anonymous#39w
One is permanent and exclusive and one isn’t?
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Anonymous#19w
Bro. One you love one you don’t. The whole point of a fwb is that there aren’t relationship strings attached. You aren’t romantic it’s just for sex. A relationship you work together as a team. You love each other in a romantic sense
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Anonymous#39w
And what is “romance” exactly? Intimacy? Because intimacy is basically sex without the actual being naked and rubbing genitals part
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Anonymous#19w
romance is emotional. planning dates for your partner engaging is quality activities and time, getting them something that reminds you of them, making time for them, having genuine conversation and feelings, you can be romantic without anything sexual occurring
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AnonymousOP9w
Is that not just a close friendship though?
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Anonymous#19w
are you one to plane dates with you’re guy friends? cuz if you are then okay me personally i don’t hang go on a date with someone im not emotionally invested in
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AnonymousOP9w
plan*
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AnonymousOP9w
A date is just something you do with someone else. The only reason it’s called a date is because there are intentions to become intimate, if it hasn’t already happened. You see my logic now?
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Anonymous#19w
Intimacy does not equal sex
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Anonymous#19w
You plan a date to see if you may be compatible to consider building a life with said person and go on more dates. not just for sex
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Anonymous#49w
let’s give a consideration a go dm me :)
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AnonymousOP9w
conversation* i can’t spell
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AnonymousOP9w
The odds of us being in the same state are insanely low
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Anonymous#49w
never hearts to see
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AnonymousOP9w
hurts** i don’t have my glasses on
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Anonymous#49w
As far as I’m concerned it’s the same thing. This is a matter of opinion so we can agree to disagree
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AnonymousOP9w
True, but that’s part of the whole “living together” part I was talking about
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Anonymous#19w
yeah that part of your argument made some sense. If your only qualifications for a woman to live with you is how much yall are gonna bang then i mean that’s just a FWB
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Anonymous#39w
i legit can’t tell if that guy is just stupid or 11 years old. you’re spitting tho
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Anonymous#109w
God forbid someone has a different view on sex from you 🙄
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Anonymous#39w
They’re a veryyyyyyyy rare find
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Anonymous#129w
Hi, right here
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Anonymous#99w
Hi my point still stands
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Anonymous#119w
and we love that here
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AnonymousOP9w
Thanks, it feels odd being aroace but wanting some form of human connection still.
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Anonymous#129w
I’m saying this as an asexual btw 🙄
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Anonymous#129w
So am I
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Anonymous#119w
That’s so real
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Anonymous#129w
Well clearly there are 4 asexual (I assume men) right here in this thread