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Do men ever want to build an actual emotional connection that doesn’t center around sex? And where do i find one like this
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Anonymous 9w

Unfortunately I want an emotional connection without it being centered around sex or romance

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Anonymous 9w

Asexual men exist. Don’t know exactly where they can be found though

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Anonymous 9w

Hi, right here

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Anonymous 9w

I do. I want that fun relationship again where we drive around at night with the widows down listening to music and talking

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Anonymous 9w

Me smh

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Anonymous 9w

Not dating apps thats for sure

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Anonymous 9w

you already know him and he’s short or non-white

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Anonymous 9w

Sorry but the only thing that separates relationships from friendships for me is sex and living with each other

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

well obviously there would be sex involved just not like at the very beginning yk like im saying why not let the emotions build up yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

amen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Because I don’t need emotions to be horny 😭 but you do you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

you are the epitome of why women say men aren’t lonely enough

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Brother that’s not a relationship. That’s a fwb that stays at your house

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

You don’t have to be asexual to want a connection before literally putting yourself into someone else 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

What’s wrong with it? I ain’t hurting no one or forcing anyone to do anything. Is it just because horny men bad?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

No I know. I’m just saying that they exist

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

I genuinely don’t see the difference. Please inform me

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

mind you im not tall and have dated men shorter than me that were also evil i dont think race or height has anything to do with it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

You don’t see the difference between a fwb and a lover?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

One is permanent and exclusive and one isn’t?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Bro. One you love one you don’t. The whole point of a fwb is that there aren’t relationship strings attached. You aren’t romantic it’s just for sex. A relationship you work together as a team. You love each other in a romantic sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

And what is “romance” exactly? Intimacy? Because intimacy is basically sex without the actual being naked and rubbing genitals part

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

romance is emotional. planning dates for your partner engaging is quality activities and time, getting them something that reminds you of them, making time for them, having genuine conversation and feelings, you can be romantic without anything sexual occurring

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Is that not just a close friendship though?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

are you one to plane dates with you’re guy friends? cuz if you are then okay me personally i don’t hang go on a date with someone im not emotionally invested in

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

plan*

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

A date is just something you do with someone else. The only reason it’s called a date is because there are intentions to become intimate, if it hasn’t already happened. You see my logic now?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Intimacy does not equal sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

You plan a date to see if you may be compatible to consider building a life with said person and go on more dates. not just for sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

let’s give a consideration a go dm me :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

conversation* i can’t spell

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

The odds of us being in the same state are insanely low

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

never hearts to see

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

hurts** i don’t have my glasses on

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

As far as I’m concerned it’s the same thing. This is a matter of opinion so we can agree to disagree

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

True, but that’s part of the whole “living together” part I was talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

yeah that part of your argument made some sense. If your only qualifications for a woman to live with you is how much yall are gonna bang then i mean that’s just a FWB

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

i legit can’t tell if that guy is just stupid or 11 years old. you’re spitting tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

God forbid someone has a different view on sex from you 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

They’re a veryyyyyyyy rare find

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 9w

Hi, right here

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

Hi my point still stands

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9w

and we love that here

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Thanks, it feels odd being aroace but wanting some form of human connection still.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 9w

I’m saying this as an asexual btw 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 9w

So am I

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9w

That’s so real

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 9w

Well clearly there are 4 asexual (I assume men) right here in this thread

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