Is it weird to go to a bar/club by myself? I need to start trying to meet people, I’m completely lonely at college and I don’t know what else to do about it.
meet men at school clubs, church, etc
bars are not the place to go if you are looking for anything long term
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Anonymous10w
It’s not weird to go to the bar by yourself. It should be normalized by society to be able to comfortably do activities on your own. Just go do your own shit, be confident about it, and you’ll find chill people along the way
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Anonymous10w
Well idk it depends on who you talk to. I personally think it’s normalized. Some people might think it’s weird to see someone hanging out outside by themselves but that’s just because I think they aren’t comfortable doing it themselves - idk if that makes sense
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Anonymous#210w
How come?
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AnonymousOP10w
Lots of ppl wolll come up and hit on u
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Anonymous#210w
I’m a dude. Should’ve made that clear
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AnonymousOP10w
O
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Anonymousstanczyk10w
I’m a dude lmao
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Anonymous#310w
It “should be” normalized or “is normalized”? 😭
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AnonymousOP10w
my answer remains the same, just replace men with women
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Anonymousstanczyk10w
I don’t go to church, clubs have never worked for me