it makes friendships and relationships feel transactional to me

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I have a hard time expressing gratitude

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Never go to one , so it feels like a mockery when someone offers to now

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I don’t want anything lol. I really only have one desire in my life rn anything else i don’t care for much

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every person who claims this is just jaded, throw them a surprise party or get them a really good gift and they’ll probably cry, either in front of you or when they get home

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I don’t want to feel appreciated on “my special day”, if I am going to be appreciated, I want it to be on a random day, because then I will feel like I earned it and not like my friends felt an obligation to social norms

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Tf is there to celebrate it’s just another day

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