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Ask Men 10w
i remember turning 16 and being so depressed bc i was never gonna make it that far. turned 18 like an hour ago and even more disassociated bc there’s no reason my feet are still on the earth? that doesn’t make sense but yeah im not supposed to be here
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Anonymous 10w

I feel you, when I was younger I had a whole plan for life down to the T, but ever since starting college and turning 18 I feel somewhat aimless, but maybe that’s ok. Before college I felt like I always needed a plan for every little thing in life, but when you aren’t anticipating things it’s easier to be pleasantly surprised, sure there can also be some bad surprises but I think living through life is still worth it for the unexpected happy moments

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Anonymous 10w

We are all here because our parents fucked (except test tube babies). Everything else is mostly circumstantial. You are here regardless so do something worth remembering when you are old, and maybe find somebody to fuck so you have someone to talk to later.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 10w

i’ve done a ton of stuff but i mean like i should be dead by now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

As someone who’s been in ur shoes and is now surprisingly 23, the fact that ur still alive means something imo, don’t look at it to harshly, instead find the point of living. It’s not easy but since ur still here u might as well. “That takes time” time is meant to be spent so spend it on u

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Full honesty, I read this post like it was a ☠️ note

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 10w

Cue intro

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

I think my advice is still solid. Go fuck somebody.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

yeah im out of college now for almost 2 years and i know that i am on a great path and have so many doors open, but its the lingering thoughts that hold me most captive

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