Ask Men on Sidechat | i heard someone say “you don’t want a baby unless you want one so bad you’re willing to do it alone”. there will be some women out there willing to be a single mother but i don’t think there’s any men that would be a single father. agree or disagree ?

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Ask Men 4w

i heard someone say “you don’t want a baby unless you want one so bad you’re willing to do it alone”. there will be some women out there willing to be a single mother but i don’t think there’s any men that would be a single father. agree or disagree ?

Anonymous 4w

I disagree, simply because while I obviously wouldn’t want to be a single father, I will happily do it if I have to

Anonymous 4w

Bro nobody wants to do ts on their own

Anonymous 4w

I feel like I would be a single father if I was gonna adopt

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Anonymous 4w

Disagree. I am your counterexample.

Anonymous 4w

I would be willing to be a single father only if something happened to my wife, otherwise we’d be in it together even if we end up splitting

Anonymous 4w

In principle maybe, but it is also wrong to deny a child a father or a mother. Kids need both.

Anonymous 4w

I’m a girl, I WOULD NOT be a single parent- coming from a single parent household

Anonymous 4w

I’m perfectly fine raising a child or a two by myself

Anonymous 4w

okay so i think all of you have failed. you don’t want a baby you want a woman to raise the baby for you. “we don’t want to do it alone” neither the fuck do women but we get stuck with it when you decide you want to leave

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Anonymous

#2 4w

so you don’t want kids thanks for proving my point

Anonymous

#4 4w

oh my god it’s a hypothetical and you’re failing

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Anonymous

OP 4w

Love how you missed the whole point of what any of us said Would we WANT to do it alone? Of course not If necessary, WOULD we? Yes If your takeaway is “you want a woman to raise a baby for you” I think you failed your own hypothetical

Anonymous

OP 4w

What? i thought ur point was something along the lines of “it takes a village” and not that u agree with the take in the post,,,, i mean I don’t want kids but most ppl ik who do would rather not do it alone

Anonymous

OP 4w

Even single mothers would rather have someone to help out. Its unfortunate that they struggle to have that even if they’re married. But I doubt all of us want “a woman just to take care of babies”. And any father who abandons his children in divorce does not deserve to be a father and his children deserve better.

Anonymous

#1 4w

my post said “you don’t want a baby unless you want one so bad you’d do it alone.” i LITERALLY fucking said want. it said “want”. not my problem you can’t read

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Anonymous

#2 4w

the point of my post is that there are women out there who go into motherhood with the intention of doing it alone they just want to be a mother. there’s no men out there that would go into fatherhood alone. you’re all proving my point by saying you want someone to help you out. you don’t want a baby in the same way women want a baby you want an accessory

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Anonymous

#2 4w

no my point is that women want babies and men want accessories. they don’t want babies in the same way

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Anonymous

OP 4w

This is aqua isn’t it

Anonymous

OP 4w

The fact that we all said that we would be willing to do is alone should be enough proof that the answer is yes Did you not read the responses to your own post?

Anonymous

#8 4w

the fuck does that even mean

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Anonymous

#1 4w

the responses tell me you would do it if you didn’t have the option to say no. “if something happened to my wife” no would you do it absolutely alone ? didn’t get that answer

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Anonymous

OP 4w

Well then I’ll answer it, if I had to do it alone yes I would without question

Anonymous

OP 4w

How would you even know

Anonymous

#9 4w

because i just asked ?

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Anonymous

OP 4w

I answered your hypothetical and then provided a caveat.

Anonymous

OP 4w

Oh my god you’re annoying and self righteous

Anonymous

OP 4w

No you didn’t ask you said your opinion asked if we agreed everyone disagreed and yet you refuse to believe that we would

Anonymous

OP 4w

Mf huh that child has 2 parents it will be raised by 2 parents I ain’t abandoning nobody

Anonymous

#11 4w

bean soup

Anonymous

#11 4w

no one is understanding what i’m asking

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Anonymous

OP 4w

Huh

Anonymous

#11 4w

but would you go into parenthood knowing you’re doing it alone ? not just “i happen to be doing it alone and im fine” but “i would like to do it alone”

Anonymous

OP 4w

Almost nobody wants to do it alone but I would no hesitation

Anonymous

OP 4w

You asked if men would be single fathers we said yes we didn’t agree with you so you keep trynna change what you said it don’t work that way

Anonymous

#11 4w

i’m not changing what i said you’re not understanding what i said

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Anonymous

#11 4w

there’s a good amount of women do want to do it alone. can’t say the same about men

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Anonymous

OP 4w

Yeah you trippin cuz it don’t come down to man or woman it comes down to if the person is selfless enough to do it on they own

Anonymous

OP 4w

No you want everyone to agree with you on an opinion that’s driven purely off emotion and not fact

Anonymous

#11 4w

i didn’t expect any of you to agree with me. ofc you’re not gonna admit you want an accessory

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Anonymous

#11 4w

women have a maternal instinct that men don’t have

Anonymous

OP 4w

No good parents have instincts bad parents don’t have

Anonymous

OP 4w

That’s cuz I don’t want an accessory I want a child that I raised into an amazing adult