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Ask Men 7w
Am I the only one who feels like the entire app bar this community hates men? Even in this community there are "infiltrators" for lack of a better term
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Anonymous 7w

I think it just appears like that because of all the trolls harassing women, which then cues said posts about men (like a huge cycle). I feel most of those posts can be understandable, especially the ones calling out Andrew tate wannabes, but yeah some of the “I hate all men” ones can be pretty discouraging.

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Anonymous 7w

The entire app does not hate men. I promise.

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Anonymous 7w

It’s become cool to be a misandrist. They’ll never admit it tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

The top posts of like half of the communities on this app (including my school community) at any given time are always something negative about men

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Half is not all… it sucks, but there’s no good way to counter it. Women are too comfortable punching down at men since men don’t fight back, and I hope we won’t have to, but it ridiculous how bad it’s gotten. I used to experience the weirdest micro aggressions as a Latino in high school

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Now I’m more likely to experience full on racism (somehow) and derogatory comments from women generalizing men. I much prefer the micro aggressions since at least it wasn’t half the population

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Yeah and why we don’t say or do anything about it is beyond me. More people need to call out this behavior, it just can’t be acceptable. PS sorry about the racism bro :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

But I honestly haven’t seen those ones a lot, or many like the ones you describe.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Sometimes I get it. I think they are a vocal minority but those men who go around DMing weird disgusting things to women mindlessly are a problem. But it is EXTREMELY common to see something where, if a man said the same thing about a woman, they would be cancelled

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