Ask Men on Sidechat | I’m lesbian. A man from my hs is posing as women and saying he has my nudes from when I was 13. Says if I don’t send new ones he’ll expose the old ones to employers, friends and family. The police said there’s nothing they can do. Where do I go from here?

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I’m lesbian. A man from my hs is posing as women and saying he has my nudes from when I was 13. Says if I don’t send new ones he’ll expose the old ones to employers, friends and family. The police said there’s nothing they can do. Where do I go from here?

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Anonymous 9w

He'd be claiming to have possession of child pornography then. Bro is asking to get his harddrive checked

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Anonymous 9w

He doesn’t actually have your nudes. What is he gonna do, make ai cp ? Even if he does fabricate nudes and send them to people, he’s going to look like a perverted weirdo. Even if he had authentic nudes, I would hope that your family and friends realize that he is so obviously in the wrong

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Anonymous 9w

Anyone that truly cares about you will not treat you negatively. You could sue employers

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Anonymous 9w

If you send new ones you lose your leverage and there’s nothing to keep him from continuously demanding more. All he has right now is a 1-way ticket to a jail cell

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Anonymous 9w

The police said there’s nothing they can do for a guy in possession of child pornography?

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Anonymous

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Leave a tip for the fbi

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Anonymous

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He does because I was 13 and didn’t know any better and a guy friend that I trusted leaked them to the entire school. So they’re in the hands of anybody. I feel sick for my 13 year old self every day who didn’t know she was gay yet, thought a boy liked her, and thought it was normal

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Anonymous

OP 9w

Record what he says as proof. I feel like most reasonable people will be understanding and sympathetic to you. After all you are literally being blackmailed. I would argue that anyone who judges you for a mistake you made as a child is probably not someone you need in your life

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Anonymous

#2 9w

I understand the stress obviously. But you have to realize that he would be fucking himsled over 100x more than he would be fucking over you if he did this. I’d be one thing if he had adult photos and he was liking sending it to a boys chat, but your family and employer are not gonna eat that up

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Anonymous

#3 9w

They said there’s no way to find him which is absolute bs

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Anonymous

OP 6w

Tell him to delete the photos and never contact you again or else you’ll report him to the FBI for possession of child pornography and sexual extortion, and that if he shares them with anyone else, he’ll be adding an additional count of distribution of child pornography to the list of charges against him for each person he sends them to, as well as additional witnesses to convict him.

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