Anonymous OP 4w

If you don’t want to that’s totally fine, but I feel like these look so damn cool!!

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Anonymous OP 4w

these look decent but i heard high heels are bad for your spine/back. idk if id ever wear them. maybe some other black shoes with flat soles would serve as a good alternative

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Anonymous vangogh 4w

If you wear them constantly, yes they can absolutely cause damage. For health reasons, I can only wear them every now and then, maybe once a month (joint issues). But, for someone with no relevant health issues, only wearing them once or twice a week should be fine!

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Anonymous OP 4w

They are all thin

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Anonymous #6 4w

?

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Anonymous OP 4w

The models are all thin, most men aren’t. Also no guy is wearing those outside of a photoshoot.

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Anonymous #6 4w

True, all the examples are of thinner men, though society has a bias towards them over fat men so that’s what shows up overwhelmingly when you search “men in heels”. I couldn’t find any that suited my preferences since all that comes up when searching “plus sized men in heels” is more femme styles, but here’s one that looks pretty good

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Anonymous #6 4w

Also hi, I’m a guy and I wear heels outside every now and then

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Anonymous OP 4w

Forgive me, no *straight* guy.

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Anonymous #6 4w

I see where you’re coming from, but also I know a lot of y’all are repressing a want to express yourself more in your fashion, sometimes in a more femme way because society HATES when a man wants to be femme. Absolutely fair if you don’t want to, but many actually do and just don’t feel safe to!

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Anonymous OP 4w

Do you have any brands you prefer, especially for your mobility issues? I have sciatica and wearing heels usually fucks my back up immediately

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Anonymous #5 4w

None I prefer no, I kinda just wear the same ones whenever I do want to wear heels lol. They’re these witchy looking walking boots from Ecco, they were hand-me-downs from my grandma and it doesn’t appear that Ecco sells them anymore😔

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Anonymous OP 3w

You’re right that mens’ fashion is often very restrictive, but I don’t think dressing “femme” is the only way to expand it.

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Anonymous #6 3w

No yeah I get that, I specified that /sometimes/ the way men feel restricted in how they express themselves via fashion is by not letting themselves dress as femme as they’d like lol, I never said that’s always the case

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