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Literally why do men have to touch women’s waist when they pass by in the club. Matter of fact why do men touch women in the club period.
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Anonymous 15w

They think theyre entitled to womens bodies cuz theyre misogynists

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Anonymous 15w

Not all men, most men are respectful. The ones who are at the club at the club for a reason. They want play for the night

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Anonymous 15w

“Why do bad people do bad things”

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Anonymous 15w

Why do men go to the club

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Anonymous 15w

lol I’m a dude and this happened to me last night in a bar, she was a server, and the second time she passed I moved as far out of the way as I possibly could but she literally re routed so she could do it again

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Anonymous 14w

The waist thing I cannot speak to, but as for touching in general, when clubs are crowded it can be hard if not impossible to not bump into people.

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Anonymous 15w

I don’t

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Anonymous 14w

Fuckin weirdos I guess

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Anonymous 15w

They don’t? I’m a bouncer at 2 separate bars and that does not happen, go to a better place

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

This didn’t answer the question

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

It did tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

lmao cute take. they do this in grocery stores, outside, at the pharmacy, and anywhere else

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

You haven’t seen it so I guess that means it doesn’t happen

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 14w

nobody was complaining about being bumped into

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

their comment is just victim blaming. they're saying "well i stop people at the bar i bounce at so just pick better bars" 1) this is nonsense. bouncers bounce ppl *after* they do the thing, so it has definitely happened at their bar 2) this person is probably not a bouncer, and if they are, their overconfidence has certainly allowed many creeps to get away with it 3) the onus is on men to not creep, not on women to predict which bars will have bouncers with the ability to see the future

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14w

You probably live in a sketchy area or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14w

So I get why your mad, I do, but I think to be totally honest, you’ve already classified yourself as a victim honey. If you choose to go to large clubs with massive crowds you are going to get hands on you at one point or another. Getting people out AFTER they do something doesn’t mean anything here, I’m saying that where I bounce at, in normal quiet bars, these things never happened. At college bars where I bounce they do, but by choosing to go into a club scene you gotta understand there is a

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

A risk that goes along with it. I’m not saying women need to predict where bouncers will step in, im a woman myself, I understand the disparity, but still I’m saying in large crowds you are significantly more likely to get grabbed than you would be in a normal bar. We can sit here are cry about how unfair it is or you can decide to choose a better spot for a fun night.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14w

Sooo has it happened to you in all of those places? Or are we victimizing ourself and generalizing a fear that doesn’t really exist?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

*exist as prevalently as you make it seem?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

No one thinks that, I’m sorry hon but you are not special, nobody wants to be entitled to your body

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

the existence of rapists and violent sex pests makes this entire claim nonsensical. many men do in fact feel entitled to women's bodies, and only an absolute dunce would claim this isn't true, and only an absolute caveman would claim it isn't true for all men

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14w

Oh my god I so don’t care

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

Then pipe down

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Girl I don’t stopped responding, I just keep seeing this fuck ass yikyak notification when yall type stupid shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

If you used your brain you could hit the notification off this post

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

Im a man... thats just how misogyny works bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

Oh my god you so cared. Enough to engage and continue engaging instead of turning off the post-notifications 🤡

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14w

Since OP said “Matter of fact why do men touch women in the club period,” I wasn’t sure if they were counting being bumped into as a part of that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14w

That’s so weird

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