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Why is it such a big deal to some guys that I’m gay like I like men the not a huge thing
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Anonymous 11w

Well statistically speaking the people who would have a reaction to you being gay are homophobic or are gay themselves and find you attractive, everyone else is either an ally or ambivalent to your orientation

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Anonymous 11w

Honestly I couldn’t care less about your sexual orientation. What I do care more about is that gay men, much like straight men, sometimes find taking no for an answer difficult, and that’s where I get annoyed. 😑

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Anonymous 11w

Oh yeah that makes sense, I personally would never push someone if they say no that automatically means I back off

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Grew up in the south, surrounded by trailer parks and confederate flags. I knew a lot of people who hated gays, but never anyone who was afraid of them lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

what are you trying to say with this? in this context phobia means aversion, not literal fear. those people are homophobic

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