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This guy loves to lay on my lap, hold me/my hand, kisses my hand, says “love you” for the first time… but hasn’t asked me out yet. We’re not official. I don’t really know what to think, I also have trust issues from this behavior in the past…
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Anonymous 1w

Not enough info

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Anonymous 1w

i’m sorry but saying love you before asking you out is slightly weird. i get it it holds less value than i love you but still that’s something he shouldn’t be expressing yet. i think he’s just currently infatuated if he’s that touchy so i think you should give him more time and maybe have a conversation in the future about what both of your intentions are.. idk how soon tho idk how long you’ve been talking

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Anonymous 1w

If you want it to be official, ask him about it if the behavior is confusing to you

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Anonymous 1w

What do I do?

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Anonymous 1w

lovebombing

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Anonymous 1w

He’s lovebombing

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Anonymous 6d

It’s over😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Enjoy it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

yeah i could’ve just said that instead LOL

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Anonymous replying to -> j_man 6d

We’ve been talking for like 4 weeks. My roommate did some digging and he said that he wants to ask me out but he’s not sure when.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

We met in October of 2025, started talking 4 weeks ago, went on like 5 dates

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

then give him time, give yourself space so he’s not making a decision of irrational infatuation that you both would regret

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