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this is probably a stupid question but how do guys make their boners go away?
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Anonymous 22w

Well I wait at least 4 hours before seeking medical attention

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Anonymous 21w

i think about something else or distract myself. but when the source of my boner is my gf, i'm basically fucked

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Anonymous 22w

Tuck it into waistband, then wait.

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Anonymous 22w

I flex my calves

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Anonymous 22w

i flex my abs and biceps to get the blood to stop rushing towards my dick and towards my muscles

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Anonymous 22w

I used to bite my lip/tongue fairly hard or pinch myself, but I think that may have backfired on me over the years 😬

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Anonymous 22w

Thinking of a person you’re repulsed by.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22w

wait what why would it last for that long omg

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22w

Boners take an absurd amount of blood to stay up that long after 4 hours your heart can’t keep shooting the rest of the body

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22w

Oh viagra or other sex performance drug

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22w

that is very interesting

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22w

does it work most of the time?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22w

this is really the only way to get boners to go away tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22w

Yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22w

i’m sorry you boys have to deal with this! it sounds really shitty 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22w

it's not that horrible. it is embarrassing when im standing because then its just very visible

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22w

well if it makes you feel better, if i ever see a guy with a boner i really don’t think much of it. like to me it’s the equivalent of a blood stain for a girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22w

i put my hands in my pockets to try and hide it tbh😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22w

I do the same thing

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Anonymous 22w

Yeah, I’ve low key pavlov’d myself into liking a little pain

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

This is hilarious. This was an actual topic in one of my psych classes and you did legitimately condition yourself. Orgasming while engaging with a stimulus is a way of developing strong kinks lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 22w

Yes, that’s why I mentioned pavlov

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

I was telling you there is legitimate research behind what youre saying my guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 22w

And I’m agreeing with you 👍

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