eepycar on Sidechat | Why do a lot of guys want me to look at their penis? I’m genuinely asking because I’ve never specifically wanted someone to look at my vagina. Just trying to understand where you’re coming from. They’re cool to look at sometimes but I don’t get it.

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eepycar

Why do a lot of guys want me to look at their penis? I’m genuinely asking because I’ve never specifically wanted someone to look at my vagina. Just trying to understand where you’re coming from. They’re cool to look at sometimes but I don’t get it.

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Anonymous 1d

I feel that a lot of men get off to seeing physical stuff like pictures or videos more so then females at least from what I can tell, so I think men assume that if they show you there dick you will want to be with them or have sex with them at the very least.

Anonymous 1d

Honestly, as a gay dude, I don’t get it either. The only good dick pics are 1: Asked for, not out of the blue and DEFINITELY not a conversation starter 2: Ones where dick is not the main attraction. Like get mood lighting, good abs, SOMETHING other than just cock

Anonymous 1d

As a guy I’ve always been confused by this tbh. Plenty confident in my body but straight up dick just isn’t a flattering angle. Maybe it’s some typa fetish idk

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Anonymous 1d

So there’s some guys that genuinely get off on showing dick pics to people who don’t want them. I don’t know if that’s the case for what you’ve been experiencing but all of the pics I’ve gotten have been wholly unwanted

Anonymous 1d

They like to see your lady parts. Therefore, they think you want to see their man parts. Simple

Anonymous 1d

I mean i’m paying money for mine (trans male) and customizing it hopefully so that’s why i’m gonna be overjoyed if someone asks to see it (once i get phallo)

Anonymous 19h

My ex would always send dick pics. It always made me feel uncomfortable, and I didn’t know how to tell him I didn’t really care. It was my first time dating and the guy seemed so insecure, so I felt pressured to compliment it every time

Anonymous 1d

I always thought it was weird. Me personally the only person who’s ever gonna see my penis on purpose outside of medical reasons is my future wife, besides its small enough anyway that sending a pic to anyone would probably not even make a difference to them

Anonymous 1d

I think it’s just pornbrain for the most part but I can’t speak as someone who had a good relationship with porn

Anonymous 14h

Cause there’s a group of horny men who have no respect for women and would rather get off than respect women. But if it makes you feel better, it may seem like majority of men do that stuff, but it’s just because that group is LOUD. Most men have more dignity than them

Anonymous 1d

Tbh I think a lot of guys never even get looked at physically or sexually to their knowledge. Someone wanting to see their dick is like the highest level of praise to them

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guitarhero 1d

Hmm okay so they think it makes us horny. I didn’t know if they just wanted to show off. From my experience, women also find pics and vids sexy. I think we just differ because most women ik don’t wanna see the dick. We wanna see other stuff.

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#3 1d

I think generally tho most men who show off are proud of their dicks. Bc it’s typically guys who are average or above right? Or its just objectively nice looking

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eepycar 1d

That’s what I think or you are gonna find them attractive just by the dick itself and I know women do find pictures and videos sexy but like you said a lot of them wanna see more then just dick itself they wanna see the whole body but I think at the end of the day it’s just guys who are brain rotted by porn into thinking that’s all women care about in guys

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guitarhero 1d

Yeah i’ve yet to meet a woman that actually gaf about dicks, but maybe thats just the people i surround myself with

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#3 1d

See I feel that they do to a degree but I don’t think they care all that much

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guitarhero 1d

To quote one of the few straight allo women i’ve known: “a big dick is merely a bonus that does not make up for douchery or someone who sucks at sex”

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guitarhero 1d

They care about how it feels rather than how it looks. I don’t really understand it much either tbh, I don’t think most male minds could. But that much I do know

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#3 1d

That’s exactly it like if you are an asshole with a bigger dick it doesn’t matter a lot of women aren’t gonna go for that guy

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strawberry_hair 1d

Yeah I don’t get those guys

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eepycar 1d

I know two of them in fact

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#7 1d

Either that or you’re treated like a porn category for whatever group you’re a part of

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#3 11h

Think about it like the rush of flashing someone, kind of. I’m not one to send unsolicited dong pics but I do like it if she’ll let me send them. I also am pretty proud of it and like to think the surrounding features are pretty decent too.

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#12 11h

What do you mean “the rush of flashing someone?” Why would that be a rush? That sounds horrifying

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strawberry_hair 10h

Idk some people are into it I was just trying to draw an analogy to explain it