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If you saw a cute girl crying on campus what would you think
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Anonymous 19h

Something probably happened to her but I wouldn’t go up to her, I’d leave her alone bc I’m an overweight brown man with a beard and that would probably be scary for her

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Anonymous 16h

It makes me feel sad and I wish I could say something to be supportive or helpful, but I also know a lot of women have dealt with trauma from aggressive or sexist men and may not want a man to approach her at all or in cases like this, so I wouldn't feel comfortable going up to her to check on her in case me checking in would make things worse

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Anonymous 16h

No offense but women cry all the time. Not my problem, and I don’t think she wants a stranger bothering her in that moment anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

If I saw anything that showed something more serious could be going on, though, I'd definitely contact university resources just so I know someone can check on her and offer her support, but I'd only do that if it seemed like the person could harm themselves intentionally

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