Ask Men on Sidechat | i’ve been told i can be intimidating/scary to men, even emasculating at times and idk what to do. i really don’t mean to be, im just intense. anything i can say/keep in mind if im in those situations? or signals to look out for?

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i’ve been told i can be intimidating/scary to men, even emasculating at times and idk what to do. i really don’t mean to be, im just intense. anything i can say/keep in mind if im in those situations? or signals to look out for?

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Anonymous 5d

Do you have any concrete examples of people calling you intimidating

Anonymous 5d

I am going to extrapolate an old friend I had who I described as intense/intimidating, if it’s not u then dw. Doesn’t blink a lot, needs to always be right/correct, stiff posture, confrontational. I guess it’s just like knowing how you appear outwardly?

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oranguru 5d

mostly something i’ve been told by friends or guys after they get to know me. just a general feeling of needing to stay the hell out of my way i guess. i also just notice that sometimes when im trying to engage in groups, some dudes just kinda shrink back even when i try to include them

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#2 5d

i guess i’d say it’s mostly that i take up a lot of space? i’m animated/passionate, i take up room (like people generally think im a lot taller than i am until they’re right next to me). i do stare into peoples souls apparently (i had no idea and idk how to stop), posture is probs overly relaxed? i enjoy being right but if im wrong i take it in stride (even saying stuff like “oh you were right, my b”). confrontational? kinda? i’m just a yapper. i’m never really sure how others read me