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How do I get more of men’s attention (Not in a creepy way way). I wanna know how to put myself out there. Any advice welcomed
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Anonymous 7h

A compliment and a definite statement of interest go a long way, but for most guys just the compliment alone is an easy in

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Anonymous 19h

You don’t have to worry about being perceived as a slut unless you are flirting with every single guy you encounter literally ever. Even then you might just be seen as a flirt and not a slut, harder to take someone like that seriously though. But since you said you were worried as long as you don’t do that you’ll be fine.

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Anonymous 1d

Two things. Second is most important. 1) improve looks 2) talk to and initiate with men

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Working on one. For two how do I go about that in a non creep or to how some men say slut way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Well good news you’re a woman going for a guy so you pretty much can’t creep anyone out. Just be forward, say what you want with as much confidence as you can muster and you’ll have a good chance of succeeding

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I feel like some men find it slutty to do that. Just from what I have seen in this community post

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Well I think most of the guys who will see it that way are players, which reminds me, don’t fall for looks. If they are players, and you’ll probably be able to tell just by their demeanor, steer clear. Go for normal guys, which is to say the guys who you see in everyday life as opposed to college parties, bars, clubs, and that sort of thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Got this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Smiling is old fashioned now 💔💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Compliment their shirt/shoes/glasses/etc and ask where they got them or what brand it is, doesn’t matter. Then just reply with “good choice, looks good on ya.” And smile without rushing off but start to leave. He may be stunned but just smile/high five then wall away.

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