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As a girl like what can I do in bed so you’ll be happy enough to do things to me?
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Anonymous 8w
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Anonymous 8w

Tbh I give mid ass head until I get something done to me. ATP I’ve got my bf trained that good head requires stuff in return

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Anonymous 7w

if he’s not happy doing things for you then he’s not worth it. you shouldn’t need to bride him in order to want to please you. it’s also extremely concerning that he’s slapping you for not doing things right. be safe and respect yourself

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Anonymous 8w

You can ask for what you want

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Anonymous 8w

Be confident, don’t use teeth, and don’t ask questions like “did I do something wrong”

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 8w

But he won’t give it to me unless I make him want to give it to me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

We don’t make ppl want or do anything , we ask and they do, but making is a bad foundation twin

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 8w

He does I don’t understand

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Well then, sounds like you have a demanding man

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Anonymous replying to -> giga_n199a 8w

This name is HILARIOUS

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 8w

Speed

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

He’ll grab my hair and do it himself and slap me until I do it correctly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Are you into that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

No but he thinks it’s hot to do to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Umm 😕 no. He’s wrong on so many levels. You didn’t consent to that

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

This sounds like such an unhealthy passive-aggressive relationship to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Yeah, that’s just straight-up abusive. Get the fuck out of there, he sounds about half a step away from physically forcing himself on you because he was in the mood and you weren’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Sex is meant to be something that is shared and enjoyed together, if a guy views things this transactionally that’s a huge red flag.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

It is?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

Interesting

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

He slaps you, grabs your hair, and forces you to do things, and you’re not into it. On what planet would that not be abuse?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Idk he likes it and it makes him happy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

If one of your friends told you a guy was slapping her, pulling her hair, and forcing her to do things that she didn’t like for his own pleasure and enjoyment, what would you say to her?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Youre not being a good girlfriend by replacing your likes with his likes, you’re just going to end up resenting him because he isn’t a good man TO YOU

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