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y'all ever feel like something is wrong with you? like you just missed a meeting about being human
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Anonymous 2w

Yeah, but you just keep doing, and it’s rare that anyone actually calls you out on it - not that it matters if they do

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Anonymous 2w

Yeah… but like 3 said, you just keep moving and putting one foot in front of the other

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Anonymous 2w

No

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Anonymous 2w

No

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Anonymous 2w

All the time

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

oh :(

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 2w

Wbu ?

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 2w

very much so

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

like i worry i'm fundamentally unlovable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It’s all just blind luck, love or infatuation or whatever finds us at the strangest times. I still worry tho that I can’t get people to stick around in my life

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 2w

i'm just scared, no one non-evil has ever been attracted to me. i know 21 is young, theoretically, but i'm so scared i'll die alone. i'm worried my parents already think i will :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Your parents don’t think that, it’s way more likely they have a faith in you that borders on delulu. I never had a relationship til I turned 22. It sucks that life doesn’t move according to our plans for it — I really wish I found my life partner in college when it was “easy” but that wasn’t possible given *me* being me. it’s ok to be mad at fate sometimes, but don’t lose hope

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