Ask Men on Sidechat | Why do u guys use harsh words to describe sex with women as if it’s not a mutual act? I get ill when I see men using words like “cracking” “smashing” “hitting” as if sex is a violent act toward women rather than a mutual experience. Stop watching porn

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Why do u guys use harsh words to describe sex with women as if it’s not a mutual act? I get ill when I see men using words like “cracking” “smashing” “hitting” as if sex is a violent act toward women rather than a mutual experience. Stop watching porn

Anonymous 10w

I feel like girls do this a lot to

Anonymous 10w

It’s locker room talk. No need to over analyze

Anonymous 10w

I don’t think it’s that deep. Also women us those words too

Anonymous 10w

And “banging” 😔

Anonymous 10w

Crying over spilled milk, I’ll keep cracking my homeboys

Anonymous 10w

I’ve heard women use all these words too and it’s just as vile if not worse tbh. But y’all will make TikTok videos about the last time you’ve been “cracked” and it’s just so insanely gross. Stop watching porn

Anonymous 10w

To be fair with my bf it isn’t violent but it’s definitely aggressive, just both our preferences so the vocab kinda fits

Anonymous 10w

Good question actually why do we say it like that I never thought about it as a dude

Anonymous 10w

Wasn’t this a thread a few weeks ago?

Anonymous

#1 10w

“Rearrange her guts” makes me sick to my stomach

Anonymous

OP 10w

Like why is it so hard to say “had sex with” or just “fucked” if you really want something that sounds one sided

Anonymous

#2 10w

Locker room talk is commonly misogynistic though, it can’t just be brushed off because it’s kept in private with the boys

Anonymous

#2 10w

Why do you think locker room talk is okay? It doesn’t matter where you’re saying it if you still mean all that. Locker room talk is code for “this is how I actually feel when women aren’t around”

Anonymous

#3 10w

“Spilled milk” and its violence towards women. You wouldn’t last a day as a woman, truly.

Anonymous

OP 10w

Seems like you can’t last a day without being hurt by words, there are plenty of women that say smash, crack, and hit too. Some say tap. Ever use your brain to wonder why people say smash, it’s just like smush and that’s kind of what the act of sex is, smushing against each other. Language isn’t violent just cause you think it is. People aren’t using these terms cause of porn sonion

Anonymous

#3 10w

It’s because women are regurgitating words men create without realizing that they’re using misogynistic and violent terminology.

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Anonymous

OP 10w

It’s not violent nor is it misogynistic to say crack, smash, or hit 😭. No one is thinking about punching someone when they say hit, no one is thinking about crushing someone when they say smash, and no one is thinking about breaking something when they say crack

Anonymous

#3 10w

You’re too far gone, wait for someone else to explain to you why those words are violent. I have shit to do rn

Anonymous

OP 10w

Too far gone cause I don’t think saying “they cracking” or “we cracked” is misogynistic or violent. I “wouldn’t last a day as a woman” yet simple terms are making you feel ill? Grow up. This is on thee same level of saying why can’t people just say used the restroom instead of the bathroom

Anonymous

OP 10w

I understand what you’re saying and it might be true for a small percentage of guys but it’s male comradery and just a form of speaking more than anything. These same guys will go home to their gf/wives and show the respect that you expect

Anonymous

OP 10w

I’ve heard “rearrange my guts” far more often

Anonymous

#10 10w

Sorry, stop reading porn*