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when every guy i’ve been on a date with tries to violate my boundaries for sexual reasons
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Anonymous 9w

Stop 👏 dating 👏 guys 👏 you 👏 met 👏 from 👏 parties 👏 or 👏 bars

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I’ve met plenty of good people at bars and parties, OP never even mentioned that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

not sure why u think that there just from college regular

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Anonymous 9w

Nb cares about you and your bf just cus you think you’re the exception. Girl come back in 5 months I promise you’ll be singing another tune. I can’t stand when other women always try and do the whole “not me and mine!” Like you’re not special pls

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Anonymous 9w

imo u are just the exception,not the rule. stereotypes exist for a reason. not hating on ur relationship tho but u also need to stop taking things personally bc ur situation is quite literally what we call the exception. just saying in general! u sound like one of those women that are like “well my man never did that or that..” no shade

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I’ll just delete my messages. I don’t want to make people uncomfortable

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

ur doing too much now 😭but ok

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Well I was using my relationship as an example because we met at a party and it felt relevant. Obviously it was upsetting other people which wasn’t my intention and I don’t want to make people feel bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

i honestly think ur just embarrassed about it and probably feeling shame . which is fine but we can all learn from this,people can disagree/ learn from each other and that’s okay lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I was told that I was going to broken up with in 5 months by a person who doesn’t know me. Not a great experience and I’d rather just not deal with people like that so I feel it’s better to walk away

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

completely valid,that person was 100% projecting and being rude about it too.i get that so yeah actually protect yourself!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

This is where most young women meet men, and since a disproportionately high amount of these men that do that stuff are the type of men OP is complaining about, I can make an educated guess. Believe it or not, most men aren’t like that, they just don’t interact with them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I’m also not a woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

oh yeah that def changes things

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Yeah. Felt like I was intruding in a space I wasn’t wanted. All good though. I get why it would be assumed that I was a woman talking about my boyfriend

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