Ask Men on Sidechat | is it irrational to want to break up with my boyfriend over finding a vape he hid from me? he told me that he quit nicotine back in december but i just found a vape in his bathroom cabinet. i hate vaping and i think it’s disgusting. am i wrong for that?

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is it irrational to want to break up with my boyfriend over finding a vape he hid from me? he told me that he quit nicotine back in december but i just found a vape in his bathroom cabinet. i hate vaping and i think it’s disgusting. am i wrong for that?

Anonymous 1w

Try and talk to him about it dude. It’s an addiction just like other things, he may be really struggling

Anonymous 1w

Talk to him, but he did lie to you and hide it. I’d bring it up and have a good conversation about it but if nothing comes of it the yeah end it

Anonymous 1w

i would talk to him it can be very addicting. be his support and help him

Anonymous 1w

I would break up with a woman over it. So 🤷🏻‍♂️

Anonymous 1w

kinda depends if he’s using it? the bathroom cabinet is a weird place to keep one if he wanted to hide it, and is also somewhere I wouldn’t think to look when getting rid of them earlier. Ask him about it more. if he admits he hid it and is using it, then it’s your decision

Anonymous

#3 1w

my sister keeps hers there😭

Anonymous

#4 1w

I know people keep one there sometimes, I meant it’s not particularly hidden. If he meant to hide he still had one he’d probably at least like put it in or behind something in there

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Anonymous

#3 1w

I agree. Finding he still has one isn’t proof he’s been using it and lying. It’s definitely something to have a conversation about before jumping to conclusions. But if at the end of that conversation you still feel like you can’t trust him, then yeah it’s a doomed relationship and it’s probably best to end things.