Because they can’t handle rejection and decide to project and try to make you feel as bad as they do about themselves

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I’ve seen men and women do this. It’s a way to protect themselves from the pain. Think of if a friend didn’t get a job they applied for. Some ways to comfort them would be to reassure them, highlight other options, or highlight the negatives of the job (despite them obviously wanting the job)

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Sour grapes

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