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Boys as a reminder, your girls love language isn’t just how she shows love but also how she wants to receive it. Examples in comments.
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Anonymous 2d

As #1 exemplified, love language isn’t always the same between how love is shown vs received.

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Anonymous 2d

I show love by words of affirmation but I prefer quality time. I also love acts of service (like grabbing my medication when im too lazy to get up, or just driving me places because I’m not able to drive due to medical reasons)

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Anonymous 2d

I don’t believe in love languages

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Anonymous 2d

Physical touch: Cuddling, head scratches, massages, pick her up and spin her around like a princess (when she’s not in a bad mood), carry her bridal style Quality time: Do a spa day, go shopping and go try on funny clothes and take pictures, paint nails, movie night, bake/cook together (if neither of you get pissed in the kitchen), listening to her to talk about her day

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Anonymous 2d

You are supposed to show love in the way that your partner wants to receive it. That’s how a relationship works.

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Anonymous 1d

Not a question

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

(I’m a woman so I’m saying this isn’t true lol. Also like idgaf how my partner shows love to me as long as I know they love me)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Acts of service: Breakfast in bed, pampering when sick, if she’s busy and has a lot on her plate ask her what you can take off her plate and do it, getting her food when she says she isn’t hungry, getting her a sweet treat when she has had a rough day, remembering her go to order Words of Affirmation: Leave post it notes on her mirror saying that she’s gorgeous or you love her, validate her when she does something she is proud of, remind her you love/appreciate her and how she makes you feel.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Gifting: Surprise her with flowers, her favorite candy, or an outfit she has been eyeballing, take her shopping and do a shopping spree with her, make paper flowers for her, make a love box for her (a box that has pictures of you both on it)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

Just, you know, as a reminder.

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