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why are men like allergic to asking women about themselves
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Anonymous 11w

Lurking woman also wanting an answer 🤚🏾 almost every date I have been on I always asked them about themselves but they never asked me

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Anonymous 11w

Idk I always do maybe that’s why I don’t have a relationship lol

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Anonymous 11w

*asking her about herself* why do you think this is ?

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Anonymous 10w

This doesn’t seem like a gendered or romantic thing tbh

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Anonymous 10w

Because they currently run the risk of having to argue against whatever thought/mood a TikTok or IG “influencer” has put in their head.

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 11w

no clue

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

no fr. i genuinely don’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

More interested in a superficial relationship and need to develop more emotional maturity and empathy. It’s very hard trying to date college age men

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Me with 1/2 of the dates I’ve been on with women

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

(She never asked about me)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

it’s both

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

My gf always complains about any person she meets (man or woman, except me) being like this. I personally have only experienced it over text but I think that’s because I have a very distinct presence, but it was mostly from women on my end. That’s why I made the claim that I did/

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

in my case, it’s both gender and romantic which is why i made the post on ask men

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