Anonymous oranguru 11w

Also I tend to feel that the men who are very open about not caring about women’s looks are more vocal about this than women who don’t care about men’s looks when choosing a partner. You’d be surprised about how flexible women’s standards (for physical attractiveness) can be once they find genuine connection with a guy

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Anonymous #2 11w

This ignores familiarity, we live in a hell on earth socially/spiritually so of course something will be broken because of it (the way we view each other physically)

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Anonymous #2 11w

what is "message" in this context

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Anonymous #5 11w

the rate at which users on a dating profile would message other users

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Anonymous #2 11w

what does this graph imply? i'm having a hard time reading the graph

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Anonymous #5 11w

dotted lines are how attractive users rate the opposite gender. solid lines are how often users message the opposite gender. basically men rate women on a typical bell curve but overwhelmingly only message women they find highly attractive. women tend not to find many men all that attractive but still message them frequently (seemingly bothering less with highly attractive men)

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Anonymous #5 11w

i have these screenshots from a video where she cites it - i think it's OkCupid data. i can find the video if you want. it's called "I Debunked the Entire Manosphere" and it's in the section about dating apps and "hypergamy"

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