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do lots of men genuinely believe a woman will befriend him, date him and then marry him and have his baby and then divorce him and make him pay child support??
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Anonymous 20w

No, not at all

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Anonymous 20w

I don’t think so personally and I know alot of people that do not.

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Anonymous 20w

Yes???

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Anonymous 20w

No not really

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Anonymous 20w

I’ve deadass seen it happen more than once so..

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Anonymous 20w

Happens to professional athletes all the time but unless you’re filthy rich I’d say no

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Anonymous 20w

Nobody thinks that there is some plot to do this long term. However a divorce can run a man’s pockets plus alimony plus child support plus minimum custody. Men know that a divorce can absolutely ruin them financially

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Anonymous 20w

Idk about lots of men but I know I sure do. It’s one of those irrational fears that some men get when they have bad moms/mother figures and it doesn’t help we see it constantly in divorces so not like it’s going to happen just if it does then you’re screwed

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

why 💔 that's genuinely insane to believe that all women would do something like that. if you think about it for longer than two seconds why would anyone go through all that effort when they could just go to college and get a degree then a job?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

like most women i know don't even approach men let alone are planning on committing a diabolical decade long evil plan to get free check

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Women can be extremely vindocatice

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

aren’t the same people who believe this tho also believe women are as smart as men? like how can one be vindictive but also stupid? explain. also vindictive implies revenge, why would a women need to enact revenge for someone?

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Anonymous replying to -> mryikyak 20w

i'm doing my research into redpill culture and its so contradictory. one minute they are saying all women care about is money and looks, the next they are saying they are wipe out all men and trying to take over the world, and then the next they are saying they are just stupid bitches only good for childbearing like what is it 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Honestly if you ask me I would say its insecurity and them moving the goal post to fulfill whatever they want to think.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

aren’t*

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 20w

the only way i can see that happening is if you & your friends are super rich? otherwise i have no clue why this would be a valid fear

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20w

yeah ig i can see that but even then, usually to meet filthy rich people you have to be rich yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Not necessarily, if you go to any polo, skiing, or yacht clubs you can get in relatively cheap and meet some filthy rich people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

They’re more like family friends, very good friends of my father. And yes they were both quite wealthy making comfortably over 6 figures.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

And they weren’t wealthy when the relationship started either. One of them was just getting by and the other was on the verge of homelessness.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 20w

how do you know it was a premeditated diabolical decision? how do you know they didn't divorce bc they fell out of love and the relationship didn't work

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Trust me these aren’t women you want to be going to bat for😭 you’ve never even met them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

Vindocatice

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 20w

then never marry ig? of you're so worried about it financially

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