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How do I know if I guy only wants me for sex? Idk Ite been twice now that he’s Asked me to stay the night and then also told me to come over or is that normal
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Anonymous 1w

No way to tell for sure but the best you can do is make him wait and earn it. I’m not saying you have to wait 3 months but yeah guys who only wanna hit will be onto the next

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Anonymous 1w

Have you done things together besides having sex?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

We haven’t had sex yet it’s just that we’re in the taking stage rn right and idk I feel like it’s kinda soon but I do like him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

im kinda scared that he’ll leave if I make him wait but I guess that’ll be what it’s going to be

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I mean yeah if u make him wait too long bro could very well dip, but if he wants you for you he will wait as long as you still show him ur interested

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

There isn’t any way to know for sure, but I say just go with your gut. If you want to have sex and it feels right in the moment, then have sex, but if you aren’t feeling it yet or it doesn’t feel right in the moment then don’t. If you’re compatible with each other then he’ll stick around, and if you aren’t then you’ll discover that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Also, if you haven’t asked him already, you can ask him what it is he is looking for, although there’s no guarantee he’ll be honest with you or even entirely be aware himself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

He told me to tell him when we can hang out I’m just also nervous cause I don’t want to lead him on or anything and Idk what he means by hang out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Very valid; it depends on how you make him wait. If you act cold/disinterested then he probably will bail. Make it clear that you’re into him, but that you want to take things slow

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