Ask Men on Sidechat | had a crush on this guy when we first met back in january and he did not like me back then over the summer he had a bunch of tinder/hinge hookups and dates but none worked out and now he does seem to be interested in me is it worth it or do i run

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had a crush on this guy when we first met back in january and he did not like me back then over the summer he had a bunch of tinder/hinge hookups and dates but none worked out and now he does seem to be interested in me is it worth it or do i run

Anonymous 17h

There could be a number of reasons he changed his mind, some good and many not so good. I would first ask yourself what it was you saw in him and why were you interested to begin with. And then I’d have a conversation with him to push for a no-bullshit answer about what he actually wants, why he’s interested in you now and why he wasn’t before. And then make a decision based on the answers to all of the above.

Anonymous 23h

I’d say run too. It almost seems like you are the last resort. At bare minimum you aren’t the first option

Anonymous 20h

Your the back up and if something better comes along he might leave

Anonymous 23h

I’d run lk

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#4 15h

to be fair tho he had a lot going on when we first met so it's understandable he wasn't interested in anything then and during the month he got on dating apps i had sort of ghosted him when he asked to do something he's smart and funny and honestly doesn't seem like the kind of guy that would play you but idk