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do guys fantasize about having their dream girl, loving her, and having kids and living happily ever after like us girls do?😓😓
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Anonymous 11w

the last guy i talked to did but through a very traditional lens (that often left me feeling like he saw me as lesser than) so yes but uhhh be careful when u meet a guy like that😅

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Anonymous 11w

yes except i dont want kids😅

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Anonymous 11w

Yes! I wanna grow old with the loml, experience life with her, raise a family with her and all that

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Anonymous 11w

I did before I let a woman who didn’t deserve me convince me I wasn’t worthy of all that. Now I just fantasize about growing up in a better home than I did

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Anonymous 11w

Sometimes I have dreams where I’m married and kids, those are the worst to wake up from.

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Anonymous 11w

Duh

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Anonymous 11w

Hard to visualize

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Anonymous 11w

I don’t have the time

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Anonymous 11w

No we have no dreams or fantasies whatsoever🤦🏾‍♂️

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Anonymous 11w

Everything but the kids part

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Anonymous 11w

Depends on where I’m at in life. Not at the moment cause I’m not really looking for a relationship, but at times I’ve had very vivid dreams about having a family, only for it to be ripped away when I wake up 😢

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Anonymous 11w

Nope

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Anonymous 11w

No

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Anonymous 11w

Um yes?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

oh dang😭😭 im sorry girl!!

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 11w

rlly? Do guys not visualize ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

It’s hard to explain. I can visualize eating a general photorealistic apple in my head, but I can visualize that unless you tell me to think of life with a specific girl. Like I can’t make a composite fake woman to marry in my head

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 11w

oh wow can’t relate lol😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Wait can you imagine like a platonic ideal of a man that doesn’t exist irl ?

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 11w

yes !!

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Anonymous replying to -> seeya_space_cowboy 11w

oh yayy!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I keep trying to do this rn but I can’t. Maybe I just don’t have a specific type

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 11w

maybe so ig the wattpad reading got to me though

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Anonymous replying to -> bluetiger_ 11w

Awww

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

i normally dream about like just the simple stuff like movie nights cuddling and cooking Pinterest recipes together over wine

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 11w

Yep

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 11w

No man has ever daydreamed about their future partner

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 11w

Wow ok, and which color of pill did you learn this from?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 11w

that was sarcasm

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 11w

Just making fun of the dumb questions on here “Do men ever even feel happy when they’re with their crush?” Type shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 11w

Deadass I’ve seen people on yikyak claiming that men are incapable of feeling emotions outside of lust.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 11w

Valid tbh I should have picked up on that

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