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strawberry_hair

 Would you take your partners last name?
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Anonymous 35w

No, my parents didn’t take each others names, I want to add theirs to mine. Start a tradition of just extending names

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Anonymous 35w

Wow so far not a single person willing to take their partners name. That’s crazy

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Anonymous 35w

Yes I'd steal it

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Anonymous 35w

Sure why not?

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Anonymous 35w

Nah we’re just gonna keep our respective last names

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Anonymous 35w

No, I’m not expecting her to take mine either

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Anonymous 35w

Yeah

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Anonymous 35w

No if I had to be at the end of everything in school cuz of my last name so do my kids

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Anonymous 35w

No, but I wouldn’t want her to take my last name either. My parents kept their last names when they married, and gave me a hyphenated last name that I take a lot of pride in.

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Anonymous 35w

No.

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Anonymous 26w

I am Jewish but have a gentile last name, so I’d leap on the chance to be a goldberg etc

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 35w

If I had children they could have their mothers surname bc she gave birth to them or we could hyphenate

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Anonymous 35w

Well it’s more normal for women to take their partners name. Like I can’t even name any couples who that follow for in my family. So I thought that there’d at least be some people who were willing

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 35w

Mryikyaks got you

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 35w

Im so tired ;-;

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Anonymous replying to -> mryikyak 35w
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Anonymous replying to -> #14 35w

Your kids are gonna have double hyphenated names

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 35w

That kind of matrilineal culture isn’t common outside of Judaism

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 35w

Yeah, not quite sure what to do about that 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 35w

It’s not common in Judaism either?

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