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Why do some guys want to be fathers so badly?? Like I swear its a recent thing because years ago their focus would be only hu with as many girls as they can until they die but now its like they would rather start a family more than anything
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Anonymous 10w

Two different groups of guys with very little overlap

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Anonymous 10w

Idk I've always wanted to be a dad, to the point where I asked for a baby alive doll for Christmas and still nanny to this day. I also wanted to be a teacher or work at a senior living facility but the pay is too low. So yeah, I've always enjoyed taking care of people/kids and now that I'm unc, I enjoy hanging out with my younger cousins and nieces and nephews. Some people are just family oriented.

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Anonymous 10w

Sex is the common factor and it starts there. Guys are in different points in their life journey and the priority from fun to long term sustainability happens at different stages depending on a million things

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Anonymous 10w

Does it like bother you that we want good and wholesome things?

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Anonymous 10w

If you notice a growing number of women are holding off on being mothers. Whether it’s career or lifestyle choice. They may want to get married but being a mom is not an immediate priority. They’re also the ones dating more now. The roles have switched a lil

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Anonymous 10w

And this is a good thing

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Anonymous replying to -> sea_taco 10w

What? Idk what this means

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

The guys that want hookups are not the guys that want families. Both have existed for a while.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Thats what thought was interesting, it seems like men are more traditionally womanly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

No, we just value human connection. Nothing feminine about that.

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