Ask Men on Sidechat | Asked my bf what he thought about my outfit and he said “you look skinnier”. Compliment feels kind of back handed?

Join communities on Sidechat Download

Asked my bf what he thought about my outfit and he said “you look skinnier”. Compliment feels kind of back handed?

6

2

Anonymous 20w

I don't even think that's a compliment I think that's just an observation

5

🐤

Anonymous 20w

Girl and guy social cues work very different. That was probably just observation and was intended as a compliment or meant as more advice typa thing so you replicate in future. Men are simple. Doubt he meant anything extra behind it

3

Anonymous 20w

Doesn’t seem backhanded

2

Anonymous 20w

Just take it as a compliment he probably meant it in a good way but has horrible execution

1

Anonymous

#4 19w

Yeah I’m sure he meant it in a positive way because he knows I’ve been lifting more in the last few months. It was just so weird to me because he’s never made any sort of comment about my weight

1

Anonymous

OP 19w

Yeah take it as a compliment your hard work is paying off and hes noticing

1