Anonymous inphochewated 76w

Paraphrasing some surprisingly ensign Reddit post I saw on the exact same topic. TLDR: men using fleshlight? People think he can’t pull and isn’t desireable cuz guys “oooobbbviously would fuck if given the chance.” Women using vibe? “She’s learning what she likes!”

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Anonymous inphochewated 76w

Obviously I’m of the mentality that no one should care what anyone does with whatever toys they own in the privacy of their own home and any judgment you throw someone’s way can easily be thrown at you.

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Anonymous inphochewated 76w

W’s. Hadn’t thought of things that way. Very well said

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Anonymous #5 76w

Thanks. Again, not my words, but I def stand by them and implore those who see this all to try and challenge that old way of thinking. Encouraging men to be sexually explorative without others, not to mention asserting one’s self over another. Lawdy knows im trying.

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 76w

Because men using toys is looked down upon in society while women using toys is praised because it’s considered sexy when women do it and pervy when men do it

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Anonymous #7 76w

Our dicks cum with a natural flashlight it’s called the foreskin but unfortunately men in America aren’t even allowed to have THAT. our natural cock sleeve gets chopped off. Wonderful.

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Anonymous #7 76w

It’s absurd and I’m glad other people have enticed. It’s kinda the same phenomena where someone saying “i want my 🐱 ate”’will get praise and dozens of volunteers Whereas “i want my 🍆 sucked” will get downvoted to oblivion and zero volunteers will ever dm you lmao

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Anonymous #8 76w

bro FUCK OFFF I DONT WANT MY FORESKIN IM GLAD ITS GONE 😭😭 WHY IS THE FORESKIN DEFENDER BACK

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 76w

You know sex feels better with a foreskin? It makes ur dick more sensitive too

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 76w

Bro I’m sorry this is rough but if you watch a porn with an intact penis you will quickly understand why it feels so good. It’s literally a lube tube of skin that allows you to be gently stroked and it also feels better for the woman during sex too. Sorry bro they failed us all

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Anonymous #7 76w

ive never in my life wanted to be more sensitive 😭

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i dont think its objectifying as much as men like to have a visual for sex related things. like what else is it really supposed to look like?

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Do you want it to look like a turd? If it’s gonna emulate a pussy it might as well look like one🤦‍♂️

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I hear you, however fleshlights are more equivalent with dildos. And lots of dildos are realistic. There’s also cartoon fleshlights. Anyway men have vibrating cock sleeves too so.. either way sounds like you don’t like the idea of men using a sex toy

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 76w

to me it's just the fact that vibrators usually look NOTHING like a penis more like a magic wand lol but i've never seen a pocket pussy that doesn't look alarmingly realistic and it's disembodied so it just feels wrong to me

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Anonymous #9 76w

Dude just casually ignores 50% of dildos

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Anonymous #8 76w

i am a man

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You definitely know girls with dildos they’re just not telling you

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since when does your singular experience with a few friends count as a statically significant survey of the population? all these dildo companies are doing surprisingly well despite the fact that ”no one owns a dildo”

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Anonymous #9 76w

i mean yall have dildos too that i would argue are more realistic!

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Anonymous #14 76w

How so? You think there’s more women online than men these days? Perhaps

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Anonymous #8 76w

Both genders can be equally chronic online but men moreso engage with people they already know. In this new age of influencers, women are more empowered to build communities and encouraged to like and comment on other women’s posts.

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Anonymous #14 76w

On my college’s Yik yak it’s like 70% women & non-binary(I ran a poll out of curiosity a while back). It’s also in one of the most conservative states, so never ending arguments happen all the time lol

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I would also like to bring up keyboard warriors and cancel culture. Trying really hard to not point fingers here buuuttttt….. I’m looking at u left leaning purple haired chick

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Anonymous #14 76w

my eyes just rolled into the back of my head

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Anonymous #15 76w

Someone did a poll on my college yikyak as well and it was like 75% women

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That’s because male sexuality is often dangerous bc historically things like rape were ok and we are still recovering from that as a society hope this helps

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Anonymous #20 76w

"hope this helps" feels unnecessarily aggressive lol

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what is rgorilla

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oh💀

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 76w

It’s just a saying man I see it everywhere

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And yet rape still happens often for one thing .. further more… if this amount of violent anger is your response to someone pointing out a literal fact liek that… you’re the reason people still fear rape. Hope this helps!

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Anonymous #20 76w

I mean starting out your life by being tied down to a table and having your sensitive palm sized smount of skin surgically removed from your genitals is a horrific way to start a healthy relationship with your sexuality

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Anonymous #8 76w

If you want nightmares just listen to the audio of a circumcision and the babies screeching will live forever in your mind. Trust me you don’t want to see the visuals it’s even worse how they stretch the penis upwards and use scissors to slowly cut the entire skin tube off and then it’s a bloody stub they wrap in bandages. It’s absolutely horrific horror show

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Anonymous #8 76w

Ok? That’s like not the conversation I’m having with 13 now is it. I’m sorry that it affected you so much. Most people don’t remember or care but obviously it’s important to you and you should speak about it. But me and 13 are just discussing why people fear male sexuality. I was not making any specific comment on circumcision

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Anonymous #20 76w

I’m saying maybe the reason why male sexuality was so violent in the past is because of circumcision causing men to be mentally disturbed. You said circumcision was a response to male sexuality being dangerous. I’m proposing male sexuality is dangerously BCUZ of circumcision.

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Anonymous #8 76w

I… don’t think circumcision causes men to be mentally disturbed???? Every single person I know who is circumcised is normal and does not state that it has any impact on how they behave sexually whatsoever

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Anonymous #8 76w

Circumcision is designed to forbid self pleasure. Humans have strong sexual urges. They have to be met somehow even if it’s just playing with yourself. If you literally strip the flesh from someone to prevent them from self pleasure, you’re literally setting them up to become aggressively pursuit of sexual activity with someone else. It was always about making masturbation impossible for men and women, it was considered an evil act of disease.

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Anonymous #20 76w

And men are still circumcised so why is sexuality at least societally becoming less violent

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Anonymous #8 76w

lol circumcising was the a religious covanent that the Jews or Moses had made with god to separate them from the rest (after Jesus came it's no longer needed) still people came up with a "reason" weather it be "it looks nice" and or "it's cleaner" (because ya don't clean it).

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Anonymous #8 76w

Bro the most normal person I know doesn’t even masturbate . And masturbation is still very possible. If this is your argument. Why are women from history not sexually violent when it was commen enough for them never to orgasm in their life

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It’s a pretty commonly discussed thing in history. Even to this day like 50% of woman admit they often just fake orgasms which is wild

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Anonymous #20 76w

I’m not saying women never had sexual pleasure just that it was discouraged the same way 8 claims pleasure is discouraged for men. So if that’s his justification for why men were sexually violent in the past. What are his claims for why women weren’t as much

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Bc I was stating my reason why I thought people feared male sexuality in response to your post. And 8 came on here talking about circumcision causing men to be deranged or some shit

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It wasn’t a reminder. I was TRYING to have a conversation since it didn’t seem like something you had considered

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Why is it rude to point out something or provide explanation. If you’re offended by my “hope this helps” that’s literally just a phrase I say on basically every comment I make for fun

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Anonymous #20 76w

it is a pretty massive aggressive phrase but also blorange you gotta relax man it aint that deep😭

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 76w

Oh hmm sorry I don’t see it as aggressive. Maybe a little nasty but like. Not to the point I would think it rude? Idk I think girls use it more than guys so i guess it bothers me less cause I experience it more?

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13 said people who still fear rape should be put in an asylum and get a lobotomy….?????

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I mean it’s a place for women too just not to answer questions. I’m not answering ops question I just had what I thought may be an interesting pov about why men’s violence is feared since it was your talking point. And again it’s not like I was trying to be rude sorry I offended you

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Anonymous #20 76w

yeah no i wasn't trying to say anything other than i understand why blorange was defensive about it🤷🏽‍♂️ i personally got your point lol

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Anonymous #20 76w

also yeah blood orange this is 100% valid

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 76w

I’ve already explained why my comment wasn’t rude to me and apologized for offending idk what else you want. Its wild what I said is rude but no one saying a word to the person who said people should be institutionalized

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Anonymous #20 76w

Circumcision is falling heavily out of favor. We are probably the last generation to have majority of Americans circumcised. Asia doesn’t do it, Europe doesn’t do it, South America doesn’t do it, western side of the USA doesn’t do it much now. It’s primarily the eastern portion of USA and Africa / Middle East that continue to mutilate.

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Anonymous #8 76w

(In response to you asking why sexual violence is declining if most men are circumcised) simply put: cutting rates are dropping very quickly. 1999 it was like 85% now it’s more like 45% or less.

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Anonymous #8 76w

But now we’re going to have another issue where tons of men are insecure because they don’t have their natural anatomy whereas other men do. Imagine you’re the only guy in your class that had his dick cut up tight and dry. If you need example just look up porn. The difference is insane. It’s basically a built in sleeve for stroking it gently. Oh well Have a good day

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Anonymous #8 76w

I think that should be the great part about wearing clothes is you will probably never know if any given person is circumcised or not🤨

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iFunnier detected

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Anonymous inphochewated 76w

Also what the actual fuck is this thread my eyes

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Anonymous mother_russia 2w

The ask women community is very specifically sex positive for women to ask questions or post updates since women’s pleasure isn’t taught in schools or in media or porn like it is for men, and women tend to have issues with it regularly either out of trauma, cultural shame, health issues (WAY more common than you think), and materials not being made for women (like lubes, condoms, and toys being made with harmful materials causing infections or irritation). It’s just very different context

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Anonymous #1 2w

What do you mean by that?

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Anonymous mother_russia 2w

Brother it’s been 73 weeks

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Anonymous #20 2w

It showed up on the page for me 🤷🏼‍♀️ idc when it was posted

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Anonymous mother_russia 2w

lol it’s just crazy to see a comment and then see a 73 week old post

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Anonymous mother_russia 2w

Thanks for bringing me back to this 😭🙏

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Anonymous mother_russia 2w

They are probably referring to this.

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Anonymous pirosnake 2w

Do you believe that comic is accurate?

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Anonymous mother_russia 2w

In a way. There are some people that operate this way and some that don’t. I would mark this down as a form of pretty privilege.

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Anonymous mother_russia 2w

my comment was a joke and was not meant to be looked this deeply into but yes it was a reference to that comic.

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