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I can’t tell if I’m actually attractive or not. I’m a girl and I get lots of compliments from older women and girls my age every so often (which I love), but never from guys I have a crush on. Are women just being nice to me or am I actually pretty?
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Anonymous 8w

Guys have completely backed out of the dating game dawg it’s not just you. You could be the most attractive girl in the world and still get no attention because most of us guys have given up by this point.

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Anonymous 8w

Even if guys think you’re cute a lot of them won’t do anything about it because we’re scared of it being perceived negatively

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Anonymous 8w

Same sex compliments aren’t as reliable as those form the opposite gender, but you shouldn’t sort yourself into “pretty” or not, because there’s one look that defines pretty. You can only work towards the look you want

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Anonymous 8w

I feel like a lot of the things girls compliment on guys don’t really care about (talking about physical appearance compliments). Also a lot of guys consider women’s compliments glazing with no meaning behind it idk how it feels to revive bc I’m not a girl. You shouldn’t worry about how attractive you are, it can only get you so far, your personality will get you farther if your crush is a man of good character.

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