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Why is it so difficult to meet guys? Like genuinely I don’t think there is anything about me that specifically would make a guy uninterested so why am I struggling so much to find anyone at all
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Anonymous 4w

A lot of guys are scared of initiation these days, are you on dating apps? That'll help with meeting people (quality may vary)

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Anonymous 4w

I have a mixed gender friend group and I encourage my friends to bring new people to most hangouts and it’s been a pretty good way for me to meet women so I’d imagine it’d be effective for meeting men too

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Anonymous 4w

Most people are closed off and do not want interaction with people they don’t know

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Anonymous 4w

Because you’re expecting to be approached and courted by a generation of men who grew up being told NOT TO APPROACH WOMEN! A man could be madly in love with you and still not say anything! It’s up to you to make the first move or at least open a window for men to make a move

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I’ve been invited to hangouts before by other friend groups, but I’m always kind of like should I come again? If they invited me once does that mean I can come back if we all had a good time?

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